Monday, September 10, 2012

Journal #6

It is very annoying when someone blames you for something you did not do.  I try very hard to always make my accusations as true as possible because it is no fun trying to regain that person's affections for you.  There are many possibly repercussions to giving false accusations.  If I was to accuse my brother, Walker, of stealing all the money out of my piggy bank but really it had been my other brother, Taylor, Walker would most likely be pretty mad at me.  He would feel very wounded.  He would feel wounded because he would think that I did not think our relationship was as strong as it really was.  I would feel very extremely wounded if someone was to falsely accuse me of something.  I would see that they had a false image of me and that they really did not know me at all.  It would be like our friendship was a lie and that I had not really known them at all.  I would also see that they hadn't really known me either, which would hurt because all my efforts to build a relationship with them would all be for a loss it would seem.  Now this all seems a bit extreme, do not take it so extreme.  I just would feel very hurt if this was to happen to me, but I would be able to recover as most people would.  It would be initially my relationship with that person most likely would not be the greatest.  This would also apply to the vice versa situation.  If I was to accuse someone wrongfully they would probably lose trust in me initially as well.  That would probably be the worst repercussion of that situation, losing that relationship with that person for however long.  You could also end up grounded or in jail or just sad and friendless.  There are a lot of possible repercussions that could happen with false accusations, however losing the trust of a friend would be the worst.   

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